Personal Life Coach – 10 Questions To Ask
To really know what’s going on inside your head and your heart, you need to have the answers, but what are the questions to those answers that will help guide us in the right direction? We all have dreams as a child and as we grow up we seem to lose sight of what we feel will make us happy.
You need to know what makes you tick. What is it that you wanted in life? Here are 10 questions that the personal life coach has for you to answer. I’m sure these will help point you in the right direction.
1. What do I really want?
I know that this question can be considered generic, but for you to get where you want to be, you need to know the answer to this question. It may also sound selfish, but isn’t it your life and you should what you want in it? (oops, you don’t need to answer that one)
2. Should I really change?
This is sort of a loaded question. One would think that if your life is good and you’re happy, you shouldn’t have to, but then again, change is good if it’s in a positive way.
3. What’s the bright side in all of this?
I’m a positive person and I try to find the positive in everyone and everything. Positiveness breeds positiveness and that goes for negativity as well.
4. Am I comfortable with what I’m doing?
There’s always the easy way and the right way when it comes to deciding what goes with which shoes or shirt. It doesn’t take a genius to see yourself as someone unique, or else we’ll all be equally the same in everything we do. Variety brings in very interesting and exciting questions to be experimented.
5. Have I done enough for myself?
There is nothing wrong with doing things for yourself, but you need to be aware of the fact the everything is good in moderation. Doing too much or too little for one self can be a bad thing.
6. Am I happy at where I am today?
It’s an unfair question so let it be an answer! You love being a good and loving mom or dad to your kids, then take it up a notch! Your kids will love you forever. The same goes with everyday life!
7. Am I appealing to the opposite sex?
It’s hard for someone to actually answer that, but if you’ve been able to get dates or even more than that, you must be to some extent. You can always try to improve, change your wardrobe, exercise or even your attitude towards others. Just remember, whatever you change will be for your own benefit.
8. How much could I have?
There’s nothing wrong to want to have more or less of something, it’s just a matter of how much are you willing to work for it.
9. What motivates me?
There are so many things that can make everyone happy, but to choose one of the may be the hardest part. So like in a buffet, try a little of everything.
10. What Really Makes You Tick?
In your life there is something that charges you up, but what is it. Whatever it is you need to recognize it and pursue it, but to think that it’s too hard is to already give up before you even start. Always remember, that self-improvement is not just about the physical or philosophical change you have to undergo, but it’s something that you really want.